I am Venezuelan by birth, Dominican at heart and American by conviction, love, loyalty and gratitude. As the eldest of four siblings, I had to work from a very young age to support my family. The death of my biological father changed everything; I became the primary support for my family. Despite these hardships, I managed to complete three university degrees. At 26, I had my first child, my greatest love, and later had two more children who, along with my husband, make my life perfect today.
Before reaching this point, I lived through the worst experience of my life. My husband had to flee Venezuela to survive after preventing soldiers from shooting at civilians. I was an activist against the dictatorship, attending marches and witnessing daily tragedies. After my husband left, I was kidnapped with my youngest son. This harrowing experience and the pandemic pushed us to cross the dangerous border between Mexico and the U.S. in October 2021. It was a perilous journey, but the risk was worth it.
Despite a difficult start, my initial experiences and impressions upon arriving in America were overwhelmingly positive, especially in Minnesota. The American community opened its doors to us, and every family we met welcomed us into their homes. Many Latino communities also provided invaluable help, coming together to give us an unforgettable Christmas that year. I learned that Santa is real.
As a refugee growing up in a new country, the challenges were immense. I always knew what I wanted and where I was going. Many refugees, especially Latinos, arrive thinking they will work in whatever job is available. "Whatever job" did not exist in my mind. However, I initially had to work 21 hours cleaning offices. This was not my goal. For years, I went through a hard process of understanding my purpose. It was not easy, but I realized that I was born to help. This focus turned those cleaning days into a means to an end. The language barrier was a terrible challenge, but with much study, my English has improved.
A common stereotype is that Latin culture is only Mexico. To address this, I highlight the rich diversity of all Latin American countries, each with its own unique culture. I emphasize the traditional music, culinary diversity and the joy of Latinos.
Success, to me, is doing what moves your soul and what you would do even without getting paid. Success is having a family that supports and loves you despite problems. It is not about money but about doing what you are passionate about. I feel like the most successful woman in the world because I have a loving family and help those in need.
My greatest achievement is seeing my family united after three long years. I have co-authored three books and am now a family advocate. Another significant achievement is Brillantemente, a program designed to change minds and lives.
To other refugees navigating their way in a new country, I offer this advice: Stay focused and find your purpose. Do not settle; study and prepare to build a better society. Raise your children to be successful and useful for humanity, and never stop seeking God through prayer.
